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• REFRAMING is one benefit: learning how chronic problems (things you're all too familiar with) can be related to positive aspects of your personality.

• ALIGNMENT is another result of a reading. Rose helps you to cut through confusion about who you really are as an individual. This empowers you to lead from your strengths.

• LOVING YOUR FACE is another benefit. Your reading will help you appreciate how perfect your face is, as a reflection of the inner you.

• Finally, yes, VALIDATION is part of a reading. It's inspiring to hear about your gifts (even gifts you already know about) from an objective source.

LEARN ABOUT EMPATH EMPOWERMENT

Every empath was born with an ability to directly experience the truth of what it is like to be a person other than oneself. You could call that "otherness."

I estimate that 1 in 20 people has at least one significant, trainable gift as an empath.

Correct. Important! 

Depending on the nature of your empath gift, it’s an opportunity for certain kinds of knowledge, wisdom and service.  The most common gifts are Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Spiritual. Often an empath will have multiple gifts.

What difference does it make for an empath, whether you are skilled or not?

It can make a significant life-changing difference, when you make the leap from a natural empath to a skilled empath. 

Every empath is wired with your gift(s) active since birth. It’s a kind of neuro-physiological wiring comparable to your IQ or sexuality.

Have you heard of Highly Sensitive Persons? (HSPs) About 1 in 5 Americans is an HSP, while 1 in 20 is an empath.

This kind of inner wiring is not a choice, any more than your being right or left handed, the color of your eyes, your sexual orientation. Being born as an empath is a really wonderful thing.

Wonderful though it is, having even one gift as an empath, there’s one catch.  It seems that the only way God can make you an empath is for your talent to be turned on from birth.  Learning to turn your gift OFF, or adjust the intensity of it, is where skill comes in.

So, to put it bluntly, if you are not yet trained as an empath, and are instead what I call "merely talented but not yet skilled," you are bound to suffer.

Every day of your life, whether you want to or not, an unskilled empath will take on STUFF from other people (fear, pain, depression, etc.), take it into your aura where it will hang around for an indefinite period of time.

This doesn't happen consciously but it still happens, which is why every unskilled empath suffers. I would love to help you to change that.

On a regular basis, I receive thank yous about what a life-changing difference it can make, becoming a skilled empath.

You gain the ability to turn your empathy OFF at will.  Then, you can use specific techniques to turn your gift ON, also at will, usually a great deal stronger than ever before.  The insights and service available to you are often described as uncanny.

As noted in Empowered by Empathy, “The desire to have control over empathy is healthy.  Just because you have an empathic gift doesn’t mean you must be a slave to it, on call 24/7.  The solution is to learn to use empathy in a way that empowers you.” 

On a regular basis, I receive thank you’s that illustrate the difference it makes, becoming a skilled empath. 

For example, from a reader of Empowered by Empathy: 

 “For the first time, someone has spoken to me of my gift as a true strength, not a weakness.  That affirmation has centered me back in myself in a way that nothing has ever done before. Your book has stood me up, honored me, given my abilities value, esteemed my deepest self.”

Another example comes from a student who took an adult ed. course, of the kind I have taught in public schools over the last decade through Fairfax County Adult Education:

“She’s the most outstanding teacher I’ve had and that’s in high school, college and graduate school.”

An entire chapter of my book, Empowered by Empathy, is designed to help you assess your abilities.  For a less comprehensive but quick, practical way to tell, ask yourself these questions:

1. Are you strongly perceptive about people in some way (e.g., how they physically feel, their emotional experience, or how they think)?
2. After interacting with people, do you sometimes experience anxiety, emotional pain, or physical discomfort?
3. Do you worry about being too sensitive, co-dependent or neurotic?

If at least one of these statements is true, there’s a good chance that you’re an empath.

Since your aura shows gifts of your soul, an additional way to receive feedback is to have your aura read by someone who understands empathic abilities. 

You might request a personal session of Aura Transformation which can provide feedback about your gifts as an empat.

If you're seeking skill as an empath, you might have tried to put up a wall against others. And you will find teachers who tell you that is all you need.

I couldn't disagree more. What will you really accomplish with putting up an "invisible armor" or other protection?

• Your aura will show a wall, with one or more layers.
• Inside that wall, you will continue to hold STUFF from others, e.g., emotional pain, anxiety, depression.
• Your wall will not protect you from taking on more STUFF.
• Your wall will impart an artificial quality to your personality. The harder you work at this, the more detached, secretive, or even phony, you will seem.
• At least you'll have the satisfaction that you're "doing something."

 I really sympathize when a suffering empath wants to just "fix the problem," but walls are not really a solution. It's no coincidence that people who advocate walls and shielding are not yet able to do aura reading.

If you CAN do aura reading, you can literally perceive a wall, then the STUFF inside. 

What's the alternative? I recommend skills to help you to wake up from inside, be yourself better, feel more alive, become more present to your life.

It’s far easier to become skilled as an empath, than to remain unskilled. It's easier to spend five minutes a day, doing the Coming Home technique, using the First Aid affirmation as appropriate, understanding your gift(s), developing flexibility in how you hold a space.

Yes, once you learn my method of Empath Empowerment(TM), it takes very little time every day to protect yourself. And nothing you do will make you seem phony to others.

Rose, what is your opinion of protecting yourself as an empath by avoiding psychic vampires, narcissists, psychic attack?

Glad you asked! Anyone, empath or not, would be wise to recognize troublesome people and avoid them whenever possible.

Dr. Judith Orloff has really done people a service by pointing out these dangers, and it's not surprising to me that she does this as someone who DOES aura reading. Qualities like being a narcissist really do show in an aura.

In fact, you might enjoy reading my blog, Deeper Perception Made Practical, where there are many conversations about narcissists, psychic vampires, etc. (Use the SEARCH button on the top of the left-most column. And you do not have to do anything complicated, like signing up to read my blog or add coments. Just click on the link and go.)

However, becoming skilled as an empath is not about blaming other people ("Oh, my problems all come from that horrible psychic vampire.") or avoiding them. Let me show you how to wake up as a person, having more joy and strength.

Empowered by Empathy gives you a specific skill set that you can use to, well, empower yourself as an empath.

What if you still don't want to be an empath? Can you teach me how to get rid of it?

No. Nobody can, really. But is that really such a bad thing?

By analogy, let’s say that you have world-class taste buds—call it being a “natural foodie”.  Until you know better, you might go through life feeling terrible about your refined palate.  Imagine, you might complain to your friends, “I’m so spoiled, I suffer whenever I eat anything but the most exquisitely prepared gourmet food.” (Or the friends might complain about you!)

Comparable to wishing you weren’t empathic, you might decide, “Being finicky is awful.  A normal person likes ketchup and fries.”  And maybe you’d experiment by dumbing down your food choices.  Would you be doing yourself justice that way?

What I suggests, as a teacher to you as an empath, is like telling the natural foodie, “Let me help you to fine-tune how you taste food, so that in some situations you’ll taste less acutely but enjoy other aspects of the meal more intensely. 

"I’ll also help you to connect with other people who are foodies—because there are probably more of them than you realize; but a lot of them are in hiding, just as you have been.  Finally, I’ll share some techniques you can use to take your flavor appreciation to new heights.”

That’s comparable to what happens when you become a skilled empath.

Not remotely.  Emotional intelligence involves a kind of self-awareness about feelings, plus the ability to understand that other people also have feelings. 

Although this is a good kind of training, being an empath (real talent as an empath) is an experience of true otherness.  To quote from Empowered by Empathy:

“That means transpersonal knowing, going beyond your usual boundaries to explore a completely different way to be.  When you activate empathy by using techniques like those in this book, your gifts pull you out of the box of your personality, pour you into another person’s reality, and eventually plonk you safely back home to your everyday energy presence.  This journey is a far cry from mouthing schoolroom ideas about showing consideration for others.

“Mind you, trying to be a “nice” person is fine as far as it goes; it just doesn’t go very deep…. Emotional forms of empathy are the easiest to confuse with relatively superficial ideas like good manners.  By contrast, true empathy is the call of a soul’s deep striving, a motivation that no schoolteacher can magically bring into being.  Either your soul invites you to empathy or it doesn’t.”

You get what you pay for.  That’s as true of healing and spirituality as anything else.  It never ceases to amaze me that some people will spend freely on clothes, jewelry, furniture or entertainment, yet skimp on something just because it “doesn’t show.”

When you do aura reading, detailed information about anyone you read shows very clearly and can’t be disguised.  Whether you’re finding a professional to facilitate spiritual healing, choosing a counselor, or going to school, the caliber of your choices will be with you for the rest of your life… and maybe beyond that.

If it were possible to offer spiritual services over the Net, and do it with integrity, I’d be the first to make it available.

Instead, what happens is that people offer a cheap imitation that doesn’t do the job.  You may be able to buy a low-cost knockoff of a Rolex from a cheap vendor, but don’t expect to do work like a real one. And definitely do not expect the benefits of cutting a cord of attachment unless the person who facilitates the healing has professional caliber skills.

But I have heard you can just ask Archangel Michael to cut all your cords and he will.  Do you do anything different?

Many people have heard the advice to "Just ask Archangel Michael to cut all your cords." I call this the "Celestial Quickie."

And, of course, the most cost-effective method for developing professional skills is to read my how-to book, Cut Cords of Attachment: Heal Yourself and Others with Energy Spirituality.

1. How was the healer trained?

2. How is the work done? Is there solid technique involved.

3. Does the healer have the clarity and experience to be able to consciously co-create a healing with Divine Beings?

4. Will you receive detailed, accurate information about the energetic patterns in the cord?

5. Will the healer be able to do a detail aura reading for you?

6. Can the healer make a wise choice about which homework will help you most?

7. Does the healer even have skills to help you make a wise choice about which cord of attachment is most important fo cut at that time? (In rare cases, it is not appropriate to cut a particular cord of attachment.)

8. Will the you gain understanding about the new changes created by having the cord of attachment removed, not just with the specific relationship, but in life? (I call these "logical consequences" and finding them is often the highlight of one of my sessions.)

9. Will you learn how to reprogram subconscious patterns so that results of the session can be integrated most quickly?

10. Does the healer promise to "cut all your cords of attachment" and then show you "how to cut all your cords every day"? (In that case, run away. Don't just walk away.)

When this procedure is done properly, it will not come back.  Period.

Some healers talk about the person on the other end “re-cording” to a client.  Sorry, but this shows a lack of skill in the healer’s technique.

Most of the time, that’s the case.  The majority of cord-cutting that I facilitate is between couples or blood relatives, like a parent with her child. 

You receive a fresh start, with more opportunity than before to design the kind of relationship you desire.

No.  Each person in a relationship has free will.  Cutting a cord of attachment just frees you from psychic level energy that can distort your life.

Exactly right.  Benefits for your whole life--this is the most important reason to request professional assistance with cord-cutting. 

By analogy, each cord of attachment is like a bag that someone would be given in the hospital for intravenous fluids.  Whether that little plastic bag is labeled “David” or “Dolores,” the contents of that IV drip will become part of the patient’s whole body-mind-spirit system.

I’ve seen this kind of result happen with clients and, I suspect, it is the main reason why so many of my clients come back to me for additional sessions over the years. 

A client can receive what seems like the equivalent of 1 ton of anger every day from the person at the other end of a cord of attachment.  After the cord of attachment is cut, he no longer has to deal with this energy.

When this procedure is done properly, results can improve all your relationships, plus how you are when alone.  This positive impact can reach through to a cellular or molecular level.  It’s that profound.

Yes, and part of the healer’s training should be to detect that.  Sometimes, too, a cord is relatively insignificant.  With integrity, the healer would not bother to remove it.

Recently I set a record with a client. She asked about four very minor cords of attachment before she came up with the name of someone where the cord of attachment was really worth cutting.

This was a long-term client who has had dozens of sessions and Aura Reports and Personnel Profiles.

Definitely.  There can be many other kinds of astral debris which must be removed before the healer can even have a clear assessment of what is going on with a client. 

 Problems can range from psychic coercion, extra-terrestrial entities, even the need for an exorcism.  Unless the healer can give a clear, detailed aura reading of a client before changing anything, it is safer to do nothing.

These are among the most dramatic results I’ve seen with clients and cutting cords of attachment.

It’s not unusual for rape or incest to leave psychological scars that seem permanent.  In fact, many of my clients spent decades in therapy and have worked really courageously to move out the old wounds, yet they still think about it every single day. 

What changes things?  Moving out the energetic structures that were stuck there! You don't have to know a rapist's first name in order to have a cord of attachment to that person. You don't have to have a relationship at all. Being a victim of any kind  of abuse installs a cord of attachment. I'm here to tell you, it can be cut.

Any time you hear people talk (or sing songs about) “the pain that will be with me for the rest of my life,” there is probably a cord of attachment involved. 

Until that cord is cut, yes, the pain probably will hurt every single day. 

But it is based in a very real (though not physical) energy structure, and when that is properly removed, you can finally go free. Remember, the unconditional love —spiritual ties -- are not removed, only the astral-level imbalances.

Cutting a cord of attachment can make all the difference between mourning a loss for the rest of your life versus getting back your power and your life.

Anyone who has a divorce or difficult romantic breakup should really consider cutting that cord of attachment.

Otherwise you may never fully move on to enjoy other love relationships fully, not for the rest of your life. By checking with a skilled healer, you can find out if you have a cord of attachment worth cutting and, if so, have it done permanently.

Sometimes therapy is indispensable.  Yet it is no substitute for having the energy link removed, so that you have more clarity as a person who can make choices.

In my sessions, I have additional techniques available, using deeper perception, that can supplement therapy or other efforts to help a relationship work better.

There is no reason why you can't have one session to cut a cord of attachment and then go back to your therapist the next week and make much greater progress.

Cutting a cord of attachment is a pretty small investment to make in your own psychological well being.

Fortunately, not.  Otherwise some of us would be leery of walking down the street!  One can have psychic ties to thousands of people, more akin to spider webs, and easy to brush away.  Or the ties will go on their own, after a few days.

Cords of attachment are much more serious. We can ignore them, but they still will impact each of us:

• Each cord of attachment affects part of your aura.

• Each cord of attachment sends energies and emotions back and forth between two people, yourself and the cordee.

• Each cord of attachment contains many specific energy flows, which I call items of "Cord Dialogue."

• Every item of Cord Dialogue, true or false, repeats within your subconscious mind 24/7, impacting your whole body-mind-spirit.

• Every item of Cord Dialogue feels true within you, just because it repeats so much.

• Nothing else you do by way of visualization, prayer, EFT, Reiki, psychotherapy, etc. will remove that structure. You may lessen the impact of Cord Dialogue. But nothing will make it stop except removing the cord itself.

To help you think about cords of attachment in a practical way, think of having a car. Your beloved Ford, for instance! If that car needs washing or a new muffler, do you just use visualization, prayer, EFT, Reiki, psychotherapy, etc.?

Each cord of attachment is just as real as a car. It needs attention on the level where it exists, which is your aura. You don't need to learn aura reading to benefit from cutting a cord of attachment. But aura reading sure can help you to appreciate when quality, permanent healing has been done.

Once or twice a year, I do offer training through an Intensive Weekend on Cutting Cords of Attachment.

On your own, consider buying a copy of my how-to book, Cut Cords of Attachment. You can develop professional-levels skills.  Even if you aren't interested in actually doing this kind of healing but you just would like to know more about it, consider getting your own copy.

Finally, you can listen to radio interviews where I discuss cutting cords.